“Don’t Make It Rude” When words are many, transgression is not lacking, But whoever restrains his lips is prudent. -Proverbs 10:19 This is the last of five posts asking, “How can I be more mature when I talk to people online?” Abraham Lincoln teaches us about maturity and immaturity in communication.
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How To Give a Perfect Answer Pt. 4
“Don’t Make It Demanding” A fool gives full vent to his spirit, But a wise man quietly holds it back. -Proverbs 29:11 An immature person makes too many demands on others. In a forum there are several things I find too demanding. You may have a different opinion. It depends on the context and the […]
How To Give a Perfect Answer Pt. 3
“Don’t Make It Painful” There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, But the tongue of the wise brings healing.” -Proverbs 12:18 An online discussion is like a party or a game. People come because they want to have fun, grow, and learn about others. It takes courage to put oneself out there. […]
How To Give a Perfect Answer Pt. 2
“Don’t Make It Personal” Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense, But a man of understanding remains silent.” -Proverbs 11:12 In the last post we looked at the question: “How can I be more mature when I talk to people online?” The answer in summary—Don’t make it personal, painful, demanding, or rude. Today the first point—Don’t […]
How To Give a Perfect Answer Pt. 1
“4 Ways to Be Mature on Social Media” The tongue of the righteous is choice silver; The heart of the wicked is of little worth.” -Proverbs 10:20 How do you give a perfect answer? An answer that is right and worthy? This 5-part series explores how to communicate wisely on social media.